Agape House 1
Men’s Residence · Adults 18+
A structured men’s sober living home in Costa Mesa built on brotherhood, accountability, and the discipline it takes to rebuild a life worth living.
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A Home Where You're
Safe to Begin Again.
Agape Sober Living in Costa Mesa offers structured, client-centered sober living guided by 30 years of real recovery experience.
Confidential Admissions by Appointment Orange County Coast, CA
Why Agape
Recovery Grounded in Care & Accountability
Our Homes
Three Homes. One Mission. A Safe Place to Recover.
Each Agape residence is a real home — not a facility. Warm interiors, safe neighborhoods, and a community that feels like family.
Agape House 2
Women’s Residence · Adults 18+
A safe, nurturing women’s sober living home in Costa Mesa where you can heal, grow, and rediscover the strength that’s always been inside you.
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Agape House 3
Women’s Residence · Adults 18+
A women’s sober living residence near the coast of Newport designed to give you the safety, sisterhood, and support you deserve as you build your new life.
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Meet Your Guide
30 Years of Helping People Find Their Way Back.
Kimberly Schaffer founded Agape because she believes recovery isn’t just about stopping a substance — it’s about rebuilding a life worth living. She has walked with hundreds of people through the hardest chapters of their lives. At Agape, unconditional love is not a marketing line. It’s how we live every single day.
Kimberly Schaffer
Certified Addiction Treatment Counselor, Level II (CATC II)
✓ 30+ Years of Experience✓ Certified Recovery Counselor✓ Life Skills & Relapse Prevention✓ Family Support Specialist
Who Are You Here For?
However you arrived here — there's a path for you.
Life at Agape
More than a place to stay — a place to grow, heal, and belong.
A Home That Feels Like Home
From the moment you walk in, you'll feel the difference. Agape homes are designed for comfort and dignity — clean, private spaces where you can rest, reflect, and rebuild. Every detail is intentional: a safe environment, structured routines, and the privacy you need to focus on what matters most.
This isn't institutional living. It's a real home with real people who understand what you're going through — because they've been there too.
A Community That Lifts You Up
Recovery doesn't happen in isolation. At Agape, you'll find a community of peers who share your commitment to sobriety — people who show up for house meetings, hold each other accountable, and celebrate every milestone together.
The bonds formed here last long after move-out day. Shared purpose, mutual respect, and a collective belief that a better life is possible — that's the Agape difference.
What's Included
Private & Semi-Private Rooms
All Utilities Included
On-Call Support Available When Needed
Drug & Alcohol Testing
House Meetings
Employment Support
Transportation Guidance
Curfew Structure
5G Wi-Fi
Bedding and Linens Included
On-Site Laundry with Essentials
Voices of Recovery
Real People. Real Change.
“I came to Agape completely broken. I'd been through two treatment centers and nothing stuck because I kept going back to the same apartment, the same…”
— Jessica, 18 months sober
“Seven years ago I walked into Agape with a garbage bag of clothes and absolutely nothing else. I'd lost my family, my career, everything. Kimberly…”
— Rachel, 7 years sober
“I was terrified to move into sober living. I thought it would feel like an institution — cold, clinical, full of rules for the sake of rules. Agape…”
— David, 2.5 years sober
“I came to Agape completely broken. I'd been through two treatment centers and nothing stuck because I kept going back to the same apartment, the same…”
— Jessica, 18 months sober
Getting Here Is Easier Than You Think
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Tell Us Your Story
We listen. We find the right fit together.
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Simple Intake
We walk you through what to bring and what to expect.
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Move In
Your room is ready. Your new life starts here.
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Call or Text Us
(949) 350-4822 — real conversation, no scripts, 7 days a week
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Tell Us Your Story
We listen. We find the right fit together.
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Simple Intake
We walk you through what to bring and what to expect.
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Move In
Your room is ready. Your new life starts here.
To Every Family Watching Someone They Love Struggle
We know how exhausting it is — the sleepless nights, the unanswered calls, the fear that never quite lets go. You've been carrying this weight far too long, and you don't have to carry it alone.
At Agape, your loved one will find more than structure. They'll find a home where they are genuinely cared for — where the people around them have walked the same road and understand every part of the journey. We promise to love them when they can't love themselves, and to keep them safe while they learn how.
Recovery is possible, and so is peace of mind for your family. Let us help you take the next step.
Recovery Resources & Insight
Recovery Guide
What Is Sober Living? A Complete Guide
Everything you need to know about sober living homes — what they are, who they're for, and how they support lasting recovery.
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Education
Sober Living vs. Halfway House — What's the Difference?
These terms are often used interchangeably, but there are important distinctions. Here's what you need to know.
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Local Resources
How to Find Sober Living in Orange County, CA
A practical guide to finding quality sober living in Orange County — what to look for, what to avoid, and questions to ask.
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Recovery is possible. Love makes it last.
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